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BY CLARENCE MABIN / Lincoln Journal Star

Sunday, Jul 27, 2008 - 12:06:39 am CDT

At first, adopting the little boy and his two younger sisters seemed like it would be easy.

Removed by police from a filthy, mice- and cockroach-infested Lincoln home in July 2005, the children, then 4, 2 and 11 months, were placed with foster parents Jeff and Lisa Elrod a few weeks later.

Christopher, Destiny and Cecilia seemed like an answer to the couple’s prayers.

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Jeff and Lisa Elrod have adopted four children:(clockwise from left) Blake, 6, Aubree, 3, Weston, 5, and Isabella, 5. "We're making a difference in the lives of these kids, and that is what we have to remember through this process," Lisa said when discussing the hard times they encountered with the court system. (Heidi Hoffman)

And, Jeff Elrod recalled, the first Health and Human Services caseworker assigned to the case said the road should be smooth.

“He said it was a good case, an easy one, for adoption (because) of what he saw with the biological parents,” Jeff Elrod said.

What followed, the couple said, was nearly three years of delays and frustration, owing in large part, they said, to the succession of caseworkers — five in all — assigned to the case.

“It was like starting at square one each time,” Jeff Elrod said. “Each one wanted to reinvent the wheel.”

According to many involved in the juvenile justice system, their experience is not unique.

Lancaster County Juvenile Court Judge Roger Heideman said caseworker turnover often has a dramatic effect on how quickly abuse and neglect cases move through the system.

“The biggest (issue) I’ve seen is the impact of the constant changing of caseworkers,” said Heideman, a former Lincoln attorney appointed to the bench in 2006 by Gov. Dave Heineman. “A caseworker starts to establish a relationship with a family, and then they either quit or get reassigned and things start over again.”

Said Alicia Henderson, chief deputy attorney in the juvenile division of the Lancaster County Attorney’s Office: “Any time there’s a change in caseworkers, the case kind of stalls. You (the new caseworker) don’t know the family, don’t know the kids.”

Adoption day for the Elrods finally came about six weeks ago.

The children received the Elrod surname at the May 27 Juvenile Court hearing, as well as new first names: Christopher became Blake, Destiny became Isabella, Cecilia became Aubree. The couple have another adopted son, Weston, 5, whom they adopted in Scotts Bluff County.

“We don’t want to sound bitter, but this was a long, difficult battle,” Lisa Elrod said.

Of the three most common categories of cases in Nebraska’s juvenile courts — abuse and neglect, law violations and ungovernable or truancy — abuse and neglect are the toughest to resolve, and the most time-consuming.

They often involve allegations by a county attorney office that parents or guardians have not provided for the well-being of their children. Adult drug abuse is often at the heart of these cases, but mental health issues and physical or sexual violence can play a role, too.

Many times, the state removes children from their homes while cases are pending, and while professionals — from judges and attorneys, to social workers and drug and mental health therapists — wrestle with knotty questions.

* Is it in the best interests of the children to be reunited with the parents? Or should the state move toward terminating parental rights and adoption?

* Where is the balance between children’s interests and biological parents’ right —  grounded in the U.S. Constitution — to retain custody and control of their children?

* If the goal is reunification, what is the most effective plan for reaching that end?

* And once a plan is finally approved by the court, have custodial parents shown real progress toward meeting their obligations?  How likely are they to succeed?

Carol Stitt, executive director of the Nebraska Foster Care Review Board, said front-line caseworkers play a crucial role in answering many of these questions.

“It’s all about relationships and having knowledge of cases,” she said. “Often, they (new caseworkers) don’t know what’s been tried before, what’s not worked.”

In terms of pressing issues, Stitt’s agency has identified caseworker turnover as second only to matching state wards with appropriate services.

According to the review board, as of June 8, 116 of 351, or 33 percent, of children birth to 5 and in foster care in Lancaster County had four or more caseworkers in their lifetime.

A similar study of 948 children in that age range in 2006 indicated 36 percent had at least four caseworkers.

Stitt called the numbers staggering.

“The more caseworkers you have on a case, the longer children are going to be outside the home,” she said. “You have to remember what that can do to the children.”

Children can form strong bonds with foster parents, professionals say. And that can have consequences, said Dawn Rockey, executive director of Court Appointed Special Advocates for Lancaster County.

“For children in and out of various foster homes, each change has an almost grieving effect on a child,” Rockey said. “It diminishes their ability to trust.”

The Elrod case began when Lincoln Police Officer Brock Wagner knocked on the door of a home near Seventh and South streets at about 11:45 p.m. on July 30, 2005, to investigate a child neglect complaint.

According to his affidavit in support of a state petition to take temporary custody of the children, a 20-year-old woman answered and let Wagner inside.

Trash, dog feces and decaying food were strewn across the floors, along with clothes and toys, Wagner said in the affidavit. Three young children, wearing dirty clothes and with dirty, food-stained faces, played on the living room floor while cockroaches scurried around them.

As he interviewed the mother, Wagner said, he saw mice dart along the floor near the living room couch. The woman told him the house was dirty because her boyfriend had just moved out. The officer later found a marijuana plant growing in a flower pot near the washer in the basement.

Authorities put the children in emergency protective custody, and HHS placed them with the Elrods that September.

“We had been praying and felt led to adopt a strip,” Jeff Elrod said, using the foster-adoption system vernacular for siblings. “This was the Lord answering our prayers.”

The first caseworker expressed confidence in the Elrods’ ability to adopt the children, they said, but by May 2006 he took another job.

Caseworker No. 2, the couple said, was ineffective at moving the case along, and, after nearly a year, transferred to a new position.

A third caseworker, whom the Elrods did not meet, was assigned to the children between March and April 2007.

Her replacement was a young woman who appeared to be in her 20s, the couple said.

“She was a brand new worker and given a complicated case,” Lisa Elrod said. “We felt that was not wise.”

The fourth caseworker left the case — either voluntarily or by dismissal, the Elrods said — and by the end of August 2007, a new one was assigned.

According to the couple, the final caseworker was determined to reunite the children with their biological parents, even though the case had, by now, taken a direction toward adoption.

“She was hell-bent on reunification,” Lisa Elrod said, “even though the kids had not seen their fathers for months, and one of the dads tested positive for drugs.”

The three children have the same mother, and two fathers.

Lisa Elrod said the biological parents had been inconsistent, at best, at making progress toward reuniting with the children.

“The state pampers these parents too much,” said Jeff Elrod. “Every time they make one little stride forward, it puts everything on hold.”

Said his wife: “The adoptions happened solely because the (biological) parents failed to come through.”

Stitt said she understood the Elrods’ frustration.

“I would agree we sometimes go past what we need to (in protecting biological) parents’ rights,” she said. “We have to be able to identify sooner (the parents) we’re not going to be able to rehabilitate.”

Here, too, turnover plays a role, she said.

“You can’t terminate parental rights without evidence. When you have caseworker change all the time, it’s very hard to know if the parents are doing what they’re supposed to be doing.”

But Lincoln attorney Susan Kirchmann, who has represented biological families in abuse and neglect cases, said courts sometimes move too quickly toward termination.

“I tend to see it that way,” she said. “You have parents who can say, ‘We’re almost there.’”

Any of a number of dynamics could be fueling the turnover of caseworkers, she said.

One, she said, is age and life experience of the workers.

“Many of them are in their mid- to late 20s, some even in their early 20s,” she said. “Often, they don’t have kids of their own, so the parents don’t take them seriously.”

The result can be low morale.

Job expectations also can play a role.

“(They) think they’re going to be working with children. Instead, they’re usually dealing with the parents.”

Although a change in caseworkers can be disruptive, it can have the opposite effect, Kirchmann said.

“Sometimes, it’s good to get a new perspective. Sometimes, we get bogged down in the details and lose sight of the big picture.”

Cheryl Johnson, a former HHS caseworker who now works for the Foster Care Review Board, said the stress on caseworkers can be overwhelming.

Johnson, who quit in 2007, said a caseworker might be responsible for as many as 25 abuse and neglect cases at a time. That number would jump, she said, when someone quit or transferred, and his or her cases were doled out.

“For each case, you could be working with the (biological and foster) parents, the kids, neighbors, school counselors,” she said.

“There could be 15 people,  multiplied by 25, and you are the responsible party. It’s a very stressful job.”

And then there are the hearings. Court proceedings can be unnerving for caseworkers who might be at the receiving end of tough questioning from the judge or from attorneys for custodial parents and for children.

For a caseworker unprepared for the adversarial culture of courtrooms, Johnson said, the hearings can be intimidating.

Added Stitt: “We don’t do a very good job preparing caseworkers on how to testify. It’s really two distinct cultures. With caseworkers, it’s intuitive. With (judges and lawyers) it’s all about the facts.”

Todd Landry, director of Children and Family Services at HHS, said the agency has taken steps toward reducing turnover.

As part of an initiative by Gov. Heineman to establish permanent placements sooner for 1,600 targeted state wards — some of whom were selected because of their  length of time in the system — HHS child welfare staff began holding monthly meetings in 2006 to ensure cases were moving as quickly as possible, Landry said.

As a result, he said, the average number of cases assigned to caseworkers declined.

The 2007 number, he said, was 94 percent of the optimal number recommended by the Child Welfare League of America. In 2006, it was 116 percent, Landry said.

He said the drop had a direct effect, reducing the rate of caseworker turnover from about 40 percent in 2006 to about 28 percent the next year.

The agency also has worked to divert potential abuse and neglect cases away from the courts and into voluntary assistance programs for families, he said.

Still, more must be done, he said. “While progress has been made, it’s (the turnover) certainly more than we want.”

Some workers leave to return to school, he said, and promotions or transfers to other departments within HHS account for some of the turnover.

And, he said, other circumstances besides caseworker change can contribute to delays that sometimes vex abuse and neglect cases.

True, a caseworker’s departure can cause a juvenile court case to stall, but so can the departure of others involved, he said.

“When (a caseworker) leaves, it can slow down the progress of a case, just as it does when a county attorney leaves or a guardian ad litem,” Landry said.

And biological parents’ legal rights can’t be overlooked, he said.

“We do have a legal obligation to (try to) reunify a family,” he said. “We take that very seriously.

“… There are multiple pieces to this. A significant amount of checks and balances. It is a complicated system. It is designed that way.”

Stitt said she and Landry are essentially on the same page, and she applauded recent improvements in adoption rates and decreases in the numbers of children in foster care.

Still, the Review Board has recommended:

* Caseworker pay be increased. Caseworker trainees make $27,327 a year. After the six-month training period, new hires start at $31,579.

* Establishment of support services for caseworkers, who, according to the Review Board’s annual report, often feel alone on the job.

* The state consider adopting limits on the number of cases assigned to each caseworker. She said Illinois and Delaware already have implemented the strategy.

“The primary concern, first of all, is workers are stretched very thin,” she said. “I would focus on what that does to the children.”

Reach Clarence Mabin at 473-7234 or cmabin@journalstar.com.


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omg wrote on July 27, 2008 4:59 am:
" This is awful. Look at all the statistics. These poor children. There needs to be more Elrods in this world. I have a friend who use to work for CPS and after a few years she was burned out. It is a tough agonizing job for the caseworker but also look at these poor children. The state needs to do something. 5 caseworkers for these children??? Lord, answer some prayers. The Elrods are awsome. The Elrods and the childrens prayers were answered, they were patient, but their prayers were answered. This is a very heartbreaking story thinking about all the other children that need to be saved. Unbelievable. "

Heineman Fails Again wrote on July 27, 2008 7:17 am:
" What happened to all that restructuring business that was going to revamp this buearcratic dinasaur? Oh well guess Johanns and Heineman forgot about that part. From my experience, in HHS the cream doesnt rise to the top, its more like, if you dont make ANY waves at all you get a better job. So just like BSDC, ITS mostly YES people up there. Who tell the caseworkers NO. Just slightly frustrating dont you think? "

me wrote on July 27, 2008 7:33 am:
" kudos to the elrods. may they have a wondeful life with their family. what wonderful people. "

Jessica Shiveley wrote on July 27, 2008 8:55 am:
" In the title these workers are called social workers- correction here please..they are case workers. to be titled a social worker you must have a social work degree which requires a bachelors and/or a masters degree. I am a social worker and am offended when this term is used intechangeable with case worker. Case workers for the state are required to have a degree but it can be basically in anything...such as business. When an article misrepresents by using terms incorrectly and then providing information on the states caseworkers it gives social workers a bad name. maybe if the state did require the caseworkers to have social work degrees turnover would be less. We are trained to deal with the stress and rough situations that these cases often face. I have worked hard for my degree and I don't like someone who is not a social worker to be given that title- it took me numerous years of school and hard work for my title. "

JEN wrote on July 27, 2008 10:15 am:
" This DHHS worker says "Bravo," a very good and fairly correct article. My only issue would be to change the title to "Social worker turnover can lead to delays for foster children." Because isn't that what my focus is truely about? These children? My job is to move to what is best for children, not what a foster family wants. "

CASA Volunteer wrote on July 27, 2008 10:23 am:
" THIS is why it is important that there are more CASA volunteers out there to help with these cases. With additional eyes and ears by trained people who are assigned mostly to one case at a time, these cases can be closed a bit quicker and with better understanding. It is unfortunate that the turnover in workers is so high, but look at the stress of the job. Would you want to be the one responsible for taking someone's kids away for good? And yes, I agree...there are parents out there that have no business being parents and these kids need to be placed in homes where they will have love and nurturing. All too often though, we see that they are placed in homes where they AREN'T wanted or nurtured (foster's that are in it strictly for the money) and they are unable to return home. Biological parents are given every chance and more because many times the kids' desire is to be with the parent they have grown to love. Even when there is abuse in the home, these children don't know how NOT TO LOVE. This story is harsh on the caseworkers, but there is more to it than that. We need more people willing to become foster parents; especially if they are looking to adopt. There are children here in NEBRASKA available RIGHT NOW that are just waiting for someone to say they are wanted. If it bothers you to read this then I encourage you...step up to the plate and become a CASA volunteer and see what its all about. Its not an easy job...but somebody's got to do it! "

Grandparents left out wrote on July 27, 2008 10:45 am:
" As the grandparent of a child that was adopted out through the system, I am hopeful that the Elrods will do right by the children. Grandpa and I worked with the state to get our grandson into the home of a "loving couple". They lied to the stated and to us and we have not been allowed to see our grandson now for a couple of years. We did not adopt him ourselves because the state wanted our role to remain as grandparents so as not to confuse the young boy. Now he doesn't even know us. We don't have the money to fight it now.
Thanks State of Nebraska. "

Sarah wrote on July 27, 2008 1:02 pm:
" The article written is an accurate depiction of how the system works, and I am in agreement that there are some definite problems within the system. The only problem I have with this article is that people are constantly referring to caseworkers as social workers and vis versa. Social workers are licensed professionals with the state of Nebraska and have a minimum of a bachelor's degree in social work from an accredited social work program. "

Still forgetting.... wrote on July 27, 2008 1:52 pm:
" yearly raises and employee recognition. cheryl did an excellent job indicating some of the concerns regarding worker turnover but there are plenty of other issues that need to be addressed. case workers have too high of case loads and are often working for years without pay increase or poor recognition from upper levels in the chain of command. governor heineman is completely disconnected from his most important employees. protecting children should be his top priority if he cared at all about this state. "

foster parent wrote on July 27, 2008 3:08 pm:
" As a foster parent and adoptive parent the system is way too slow for these children. It took us almost 3 years to adopt our first, he was in the system too long and in many different foster homes before he came to us. Our second wasnt as long but there is not only an issue with caseworkers but the family support workers (people who take the children to visits with their parent(s)). These "drivers" are inexperienced and sometimes we went through anywhere from 5-10 different drivers in 1 year. How are children supposed to be scared of strangers when you have a different person coming to pick them up for a visit with mom and you say its ok go with this person. And they spend anywhere from 1-5 hours with this stranger. It is soooo wrong. I agree that drug addiction is a hard thing to overcome, but you choose to have children(if you are sexually active you can expect anything) and you choose to do drugs. Parents should think about this blessing they have and not be selfish. As for the grandparents, I feel for you. Is there anyway you can get pictures though DHHS or something? We send pictures and they are very thankful. Good luck and please state of Nebraska keep enforcing the 15 our of 22 months. This will hopefully help to get children with their biological parents in a short time or into a permanent home where they will be loved. Also one note, you cannot get "rich" being a foster parent. There is money but not nearly enough. I guess we use it for the kids like it is supposed to be used. "

Adoptive Parent wrote on July 27, 2008 3:11 pm:
" My husband & I have adopted children through the State of Nebraska, not in Lancaster county, but in another county & all I can say is one of our children was in a foster home that was filthy, with dog feces & mice running around with broken glass in their yard & their "playhouse" was a chicken coop with lots of chickens & chicken poop! Both of them smoked & we were there for one of their meals - to say the least, they didn't serve a balanced meal!!!
The caseworker we had was a nightmare & told us that if the children we then had in our care (foster, soon to adopt) didn't work out & we "gave them back" to the State, then the State of Nebraska would not let us have ANY children for foster children or to adopt.
We've also had nothing but trouble with the birth family, even though they are to have no contact with us or the children.....
When a 'mother' has a baby that's born with meth in their bloodstream, shouldn't the baby be taken away from her???? Ours weren't! I know there are "good" stories of adoption & "bravo" to them, unfortunately we haven't been that fortunate. When do we hear about those stories?? "

Another Perspective wrote on July 27, 2008 4:38 pm:
" Another reason for low turnover, which is one of the biggest but rarely discussed in daylight, is the lack of support by supervisors. There are too many layers, to start, and they all focus on covering for each other first and formost to keep their jobs. The result is the weight of every result on every case ends up on the shoulders of the case managers. The GI office in particular is one of the worst offenders in this regard, and the workers find themselves advocating for things they don't believe in because their supervisor said so. Problem is that all the outside players see this (judges, attorneys, etc), and the case managers are caught in the middle. The Heinemann approach has been to reduce the numbers to look good. What no one talks about is the recidivism rate. Many families come right back into the system. "

thanks journal star wrote on July 27, 2008 7:39 pm:
" Thanks to the Journal Star for the focus on the turnover of caseworkers. It's clear this is a problem that needs to be addressed.

Also... I hope there were other circumstances we don't know about regarding the home these children came from. Dog feces on the floor, mice and cockroaches and a marijuana plant don't make for a good environment for children to grow up in, but do they constitute a reason to remove a child from the home? Perhaps the mother needed assistance to provide a healthy, stable home? "

sassy wrote on July 27, 2008 9:26 pm:
" I've had to report suspicion of child abuse and neglect many times over the last few years, and have had many bad experiences starting off with the hot line to report abuse. There has been times where all I've gotten is a recording to leave my name and number and they will return my call. Which is fine for me, because I don't have a problem leaving my name. But how many times have other callers not felt comfortable leaving this information, so do they call back, or just give up.
After I have done my report, if a caseworker contacts me, I have been given the excuses for the biological parents like "why can't kids go play in the park". Well maybe because they are in kindergarten and have no supervision..or "how do you know the clothes were urine stained"..ahhh..maybe because it smelled of urine...give me a break. Where do some of these caseworkers come from.
I have lost all hope in this system. I've been told also just because it's not how we would raise our children, doesn't mean they need to be taken from there parents. Well when children are living in a home with raw sewage in the basement, are running the streets without any supervision.Clothes and personal hygeine are filthy and inappropriate. It's not a matter of how they are raised, it's a matter of their safety.
I believe if a parent doesn't have the natural respone to care and nuture their children, despite their social economics, there's not enough classes in the world to make them become better parents.
To see children hungry and dirty and unsafe, while their parents are spending money on cigarettes, alcohol, or drugs, and letting their children go without the necessities, makes me ill.
There has got to be a better way for cases to be handles, a little common sense goes a long way. "

family support worker wrote on July 27, 2008 9:35 pm:
" Foster parent, I really am sad to hear you say that about family support workers. I an a VERY educated and experienced family support worker. I love my job and I know that I do it very well. You may have had a bad experience with some family support workers, but we are not all like that. Again, its sad that you have to make a statement in regards to all family support workers. "

former caseworker wrote on July 27, 2008 9:36 pm:
" I was a DHHS caseworker for about a year sometime back. The training was excellent, however, the support following the training was lacking and as it says in the article, I felt like I was out there all by myself. My caseload was about 35 kids and I spent the majority of my time driving and "putting out fire" I left protection & safety because I never felt like I did any of those kids any good, nor did I feel like my efforts were ever supported. Kudos to anyone who can stick with that job, kids need good caseworkers!! "

questionable wrote on July 28, 2008 8:43 am:
" Social worker, case worker, family support worker or any other title you feel you need to put next your name in order to feel significant in these childrens lives. Bottom line is the children and the fact they are in the system way too long because of turnover. Splitting hairs because of a title or education doesn't seem to be doing a lot of good right now in the court system when it comes to getting these children through to a stable family and adopted. If 'social workers' have more pull with the system and less turn over then by all means work your magic and we will all stand back in awe of your work. Otherwise possibly DHHS can work on a meeting the needs of its case workers after they are trained and not leaving them to feel so overwhelmed after their training period id over. "

Nina wrote on July 28, 2008 9:25 am:
" The last sentence of this article should provide the impetus to change, and to do it quickly. '...focus on what that does to the children.' Bless the little ones who have known no family security, and who seem sometimes to be mere pawns in society's inept programs. "

I agree with wrote on July 28, 2008 10:56 am:
" Jessica. I too have a social work degree and we are trained to deal with the stress. It takes a certain type of person, one who can deal with chaos, multitask, hold a vast amount of knowlege in thier brain and organizational skills must be through the roof. To a certain point, being social worker requires a person to be able to emotionally detach then reattach when necessary. In my opinion very few people are able to stay healthy and do this job, if you don't think you can then social work is not the right field. If they required a social work, human relations, human services type degree for these case managers then turn over would be less. "

interested party wrote on July 28, 2008 11:38 am:
" This is a no win situation. The State has many terrific caseworkers but the turnover is a serious problem due to the amount of cases that the workers are expected to take on. The job becomes all too consuming and starts to put a stress on the families of the caseworkers. I believe that it is in everyone's best interest to move these cases along and I think that all parties involved do attempt to do this. Many of these cases are very involved cases with multiple issues to deal with. First and foremost, the responsibility lies with the biological parents. When we as adults agree to have children we should love and provide for them at all cost. Many of these individuals prefer to have the children in the custody of the State since all services are provided for them and these biological parents reap the benefits of having children that are state wards. Ultimately these children are in the system due to the failure of the parents. It does not help the morale of the present caseworkers to blame the caseworkers for the children remaining in the system. Nobody wishes for adoption more than the caseworkers who see the suffering of these children everyday. Let's all remember that each child deserves to have a good home and a loving family but ultimately these children are stuck in a system thanks to the biological parents and not the caseworkers. God Bless all of the hard working caseworkers, attorneys, judges, family support workers, foster families and service providers that work with these children to try to give them the lives they deserved in the first place. "

worker wrote on July 28, 2008 11:59 am:
" I used to work with these kids, taking them for visits with their Biological parents. The Elrod's are great, caring people and I just want to say Congratulations!!! These kids will now grow up in a loving, clean home. "

katya wrote on July 28, 2008 12:53 pm:
" Ok, so I know the focus of this article is on case-workers but what about the rest of the DHHS system? The turnover rates in mental health and DD are just as high. Here is the answer...more money and fewer "supervisors". Where I work, I have 3 supervisors! That seems a bit extreme to me considering we only have 25 on our staff total acoss all shifts. "

Bunny wrote on July 28, 2008 1:06 pm:
" I am 31 years old and Lisa is my mother. She is wonderful, caring, brilliant, and an amazing mother. I am so happy that Blake, Aubree, Isabella, and Weston will be raised in our family and with parents who will nuture and care for them and have their best intrest at heart. We all truly adore them. They have come so far. They are a part of us and they were from the first moment they came into our lives and captured our hearts. I hope that by them sharing their story it raises awareness and calls attention to an issue that really needs to be adressed. "

tcan wrote on July 28, 2008 1:28 pm:
" having never been a caseworker, i can't say that i understand the pressure and stress of the work that they do, but i can relate to the frustration involved with the delays in reunification or adoption.

i work at an agency that contracts with dhhs to provide support and advocacy for biological parents who are involved in therapeutic services and have a desire to reunify with their children. i am required to contact all of the caseworkers each week to update them on the situation, but have not once been able to speak to anything but a voicemail service. even when i have had dire concerns about the living conditions of a child's foster home or have needed to report an abusive situation, i have had caseworkers fail to return my calls. the caseworkers listed on my referrals are rarely, if ever, the current caseworkers.

these children deserve more, and so do the foster parents and biological parents. the system is in need of some drastic changes if we hope to ever be of service to anyone. "

Fred wrote on July 28, 2008 2:24 pm:
" As ususal, there is little to no parental accountable from the masses.
"The state needs to do something..." "the system is a mess..."
Is there any accountability for parents of these children? "

to family support worker wrote on July 28, 2008 2:33 pm:
" I may want to restate that some of our family support workers were untrained or unprofessional, NOT ALL. My statement was directed more toward the amount of them we went through in a year. Our foster child feared going on visits because it seemed about every 2 weeks we had a different driver. This child was so stranger scared that when someone rang our doorbell he would run to one of us and just quiver, wondering if someone was going to take him. The turnover for FSW for us was huge. How would any adult like to go for a "RIDE" with a stranger not knowing where you are going because when you are little like 2 or 3 you do not know that you are visiting "mom", you are going for a ride with a stranger than you visit mom. It is too scary for these children. We wonder why there is detachment issues in our children today. By the way we are foster/adoptive parents and would not change what we did. Our kids are precious but had a long row to hoe before the parents reliquished their rights to the children. I agree with one of the statements above....if you have kids take care of and love them...dont make the state do the work for you. "

Anna wrote on July 28, 2008 6:42 pm:
" I agree that both the biological and adoptive parents need more help from the state in these situations. But this is about the kids, not the adoptive parents. I truly hope that the state attempted to give services to the parents and to find a suitable relative to take them who could share in their heritage before adopting them out and changing their identities and names forever because of a dirty house. If they did, then thank god there are people like the Elrods. If not, then the state has done a major disservice to these kids that will not be remedied by a quick name change and they will have questions about what was done. The system and the adoption industry needs a complete overhaul in the best interest of the children. "

Deb wrote on July 31, 2008 12:26 am:
" I think that was the best article I've read in along time .We just recently adopted 2 little boys that we have had in our care for almost 4 yrs.They were 12 days and 14 mo.old brothers when we got them and of a different culture in our eyes they were nothing but precious and in their eyes we were mom & dad we fell in love with them in no time .They too had very loving Grandparents we all knew that due to there age and language barrier that it would be hard for them to care for them .There attorney and someone from the university fought until the end to stop our adoption even finding one of the boys father whom failed to show up for a hearing .Please tell me why after so long would any one want to pull two loved little boys from the only home that they have ever know.We hope to keep in contact with their grandparents and to learn about their culture and the boys love them dearly .I'm so glad that they are finally ours and we are a family why can't everyone understand all these kids want is a safe and loving home that they never have to leave its all about the children they aren't the ways that should suffer. "